An Open Letter to the High School Class of 2008–And Their Parents

By James Ewers

  

It is that time of year when high school graduations are front and center.  These festive events

 are filled with congratulations, high fives and tears of joy.  It is my opinion that in many ways

the high school graduation is a rite of passage.  It signals that a young person has crossed into

adulthood.  The many years of late nights, writing papers and taking copious notes have all

paid off.  Students will have many fond memories of field trips, club affiliations and favorite

teachers.  Some students will graduate with multiple honors while others are happy just to

finish high school.  The common element among them all is that they are now members of

the class of 2008.  The lurking question in the minds of both graduates and parents alike is

what is the next step after high school?  Let’s take a quick tour of the available options.

 

First and foremost, we must make the assumption that new high school graduates will

want to take another step. It is my strong belief that doing nothing is not an alternative. 

Many high school graduates will enter college either during the summer or this fall and

some high school graduates already have earned some college credits. What is

important, I think, for students going to college is that they really want to go.  It sounds

simple, but it is true. I will say more on that later. The academic bar is raised and more

is expected of you. Late nights writing papers will turn into later nights. Deadlines for

receiving papers will be listed in the all-important syllabus that you will receive from your

teacher at the first class meeting.  There are some high school graduates who have trouble  

adjusting to college because they were accustomed to getting assignments done at the last

minute.  I speak from my experience both as a college student and as a college teacher that

this strategy does not work. You will only meet with frustration and failure. Going to college

for the right reasons is also extremely important.  Going to college to be with your friends, to

escape real work or because your parents “forced” you to go will probably not keep you in

college.  The rigors and demands of college are such that you will have to stay focused.

 

Increasingly, there are more students coming out of high school who want a position with

training.  The most important part of this option is that it is a job with training.  The training

element allows you to advance and to acquire new skills.  Going into a job without a

training component will give students little by way of accomplishment.  In fact, some

graduates will job hop until they find one with a training opportunity.  Many companies,

because of downsizing, are willing to invest in new high school graduates by training them

for a long-term commitment. There are some companies that will also pay for college

courses or provide tuition reimbursement. Either way gets your foot in the door and

keeps it in the door.  A lot of high school graduates want hands-on experience so

getting a position after high school is a great idea.  To some, sitting in a classroom

all day is boring so they would rather be on the job practicing their craft.

 

The armed services is still a viable option for many high school graduates.  Having

just celebrated Memorial Day, we realize the important role that the military has

played in shaping our country.  We probably take our service personnel for

granted because they have always been there for us.  Recent wars have given us

new perspectives on just how important our men and women in uniform are.  High

school graduates who are interested in the military should thoroughly research their

chosen branch.  As you might have heard there is a move afoot to close or consolidate

some of our bases. Still, it is a great career choice with wonderful opportunities.

Parents and love providers of new high school graduates need to give them support and

encouragement. Knowing that you are in their corner will give them a big boost. Don’t

worry that their success may not happen on your time table but it will happen, just on

their time table.

 

Dr. Ewers is the associate dean for student affairs and director of community partnerships at Miami University Middletown in Ohio. He is the author of Perspectives From Where I Sit: Essays on Education, Parenting and Teen Issues. He received the 2008 Drum Major Award, recognizing him as a “drum major” for peace, justice and equality, from the Ministerial Association of Middletown. 

                                                       

 

 

 

 

 

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2 responses to “An Open Letter to the High School Class of 2008–And Their Parents

  1. William J. Earl, Esq.

    Dr Ewers is so right. With the euphoria surrounding high school proms and graduations, it’s easy to forget that big challenges await our child as this chapter of their lives closes. We as seasoned adults are all too aware of how daunting the “real world” has become, but our children can and must assume their places in it for society to truly move forward. In addition to the option mentioned by Dr. Ewers, I would also suggest involvement in the current and historic presidential campaign as an avenue along which our kids can assume the mantle of adulthood. How better to apply the values and skills learned in high school than by playing a role in chosing America’s future leadership.

  2. As the grand mother of a recent high-school graduate and a granddaughter who will be entering her second year as a Sophomore at Dillard University, this topic sets in motion the challenges as well as the joys of entering the age of responsibility. In each phase of my adult life, it was important for me to realize that with increased opportunity, came increased knowledge, growth and yes, much more responsibility.
    >
    > I want to challenge our high school graduates to not only become engaged in their new “life-style” but with the kind of purpose which validates the difficulties of those who had no such opportunity. Today, we take for granted that all college doors are opened to all. That is essentially true, however a quick review of history tells us that many of our fore parents wanted either what they could not afford, or what was not available to them. Consequently, as we enter this new world of learning, it must be done with due diligence and with the “fierce urgency of now”.
    >
    > I commend those young graduates whose lives are ahead of them to “Aim High, Work Hard and Care Deeply”. In addition to learning from an academic perspective, it is vital to couple that learning with compassion and edification of others. Those I believe are the gems for a “well-rounded” coming of age…
    >
    > Thank you for providing me this opportunity.
    >
    > Flonzie Brown Wright
    > President and CEO
    > FBW & Associates, Inc.

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